About Me
I’ve Lived It. Now I Help You Through It.
Hi, I’m Cinderella
Toxic Love & Divorce Healing Expert | Founder of Divine Light Collective
Hi, I’m Cinderella de Groot — a mentor, coach, intuitive, healer and single mother of two who knows what it means to start over from scratch... more than once.
I created Divine Light Collective as both a sanctuary and a movement. A sacred space for women in their most tender, chaotic, or uncertain chapters — women like I once was — navigating betrayal, divorce, toxic love, grief, or the slow heartbreak of feeling lost in their own life.
I’ve walked through narcissistic abuse, single motherhood, financial collapse, and the unraveling of everything I once thought was secure. I’ve had to rebuild — emotionally, spiritually, and practically — from the ground up, more than once. And I know how lonely, disorienting, and overwhelming that process can be.
But I also know what’s on the other side:
Peace.
Power.
Wholeness.
And a life that actually feels like yours.
My Work Is Deeply Personal — And Professionally Grounded
While much of my wisdom comes from lived experience, I’ve also spent the last 10+ years devoted to mastering healing and transformation through both science and spirit. My training includes:
Neuropsychology-based coaching
Polyvagal theory & nervous system healing
Soul Realignment
Reiki, Pranic Healing
Guided meditation, breathwork & sound journeys
Sacred plant medicine facilitation
I’ve taught, facilitated, and collaborated with internationally respected institutions, including The Chopra Center (Deepak Chopra), and have guided women across the U.S., Europe, and the Caribbean.
The Heart of My Work
I support women navigating the aftermath of divorce, separation, or toxic relationships — whether you’re still trying to leave, freshly out and grieving, or years down the road but still feeling stuck.
You’ve likely held it all together for everyone else. You’re strong, smart, and capable — and yet emotionally drained, overwhelmed, or unsure how to fully move forward.
You don’t have to do this alone.
I help you work through the emotional weight — the grief, guilt, shame, and confusion — while also giving you the tools to rebuild your everyday life:
✦ your home
✦ your career
✦ your sense of identity
✦ your financial and practical independence
Because healing isn’t just about feeling better — it’s about becoming clear, grounded, and back in charge of your life again.
Unlike traditional therapy where you're often left to figure things out alone between sessions, this work is different. I walk beside you — in real life. Through weekly guidance, in-person support, and hands-on sessions, I help you integrate the emotional work with practical action.
You're not just talking — you're transforming, step by step, with someone right there with you.
Together, we combine deep healing work with real-life strategy. That means sacred in-person ceremonies, coaching hikes, and energy healing — as well as down-to-earth online sessions focused on co-parenting, career shifts, and becoming financially secure on your own terms.
This work is about more than just surviving.
It’s about falling in love with yourself and your life again — and creating a future that feels good on the inside, not just polished on the outside.
If you’re ready to rise from the pain and come home to yourself — I’m here to walk beside you every step of the way.
